Sunday, September 1, 2013

Life is too short...

This past week I was reminded just how precious life is. The Lord says that we are not promised tomorrow. So then why do we sweat the small stuff? I believe society has pushed this view of the "perfect and acceptable" life on us. They show us the perfectly groomed Kate and William  with baby George just days after having the baby, they show us young celeb moms that have the latest fashion and look fantastic every minute of every day. We have to have our house spotless and in order in case company comes over, wear our Sunday best with makeup everywhere we go and even if we are at home, we must have balanced meals made and ready for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Our kids must be groomed and well mannered at every moment. News flash they have stylist, nannies, personal trainers and maids! Want to know what I figured out this week....NONE OF THAT MATTERS anyway. When we are sitting here worrying about what society and these celebrities have made the norm, we are missing out on life. So what if your house is a little cluttered, and you are wearing the same comfy pants you have worn the past 3 days. You know what, it is ok as long as you are spending time with your kids and making wonderful memories. 

There was a Air Force mother who's son was murdered while she was deployed. She had to come back to the states to decide to take her 18 month old child off of life support because the people she thought were responsible friends, turned out to be vicious child abusers. Sadly justice still has not been served for little Evan. 

The point is that none of us, young, old, or in between are guaranteed tomorrow. Enjoy the moments you have with your family especially your kids. There are many moms who would kill for a messy house full of laughing children. Instead of teaching your children to be perfect, teach them to love deeply, forgive quickly, and enjoy the life God has given them. Life is just too short to worry about small insignificant stuff. So go out and live! Make memories! 

1 comment:

  1. Unimaginable to lose a child this way. What is his last name, I'd like to follow their story.

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